What I Learned about Being a Creative Person from Meeting Tom Cruise

Have you ever wondered how you can become more creative? How you can express yourself artistically in a way that captures the hearts and ignites the imagination of other people?

Tom Cruise as Maverick

We all have a creative spark within us.

There are times we might not think so and we might not think of our creativity as anything special, but I disagree with that kind of thinking.

Your creativity is not only special, it is valuable.

A Maverick

Last year I met megastar, Tom Cruise. The man’s films have made a combined 8 billion dollars.

That’s huge! If box office dollars are used to gage the success of movies and the draw of actors or actresses, then Tom is undeniably at the top of the list.

Creativity is not always measured by financial success, but the more creative an actor or actress is, the more we are naturally drawn to him or her.

Sometimes though, one’s true creativity is not always obvious, until we understand what’s behind it.

In my opinion Tom is an extremely talented actor and uses his creativity in perhaps the best way possible by being himself and that’s what this post is about. I know he is a controversial person and I don’t agree with everything he says or does, so let’s focus on his creativity because there’s something positively valuable to learn from it.

Tom Cruise is not an accidental success.

When I met Tom Cruise I had the distinct feeling I was meeting Maverick from Top Gun or Cole Trickle from Days of Thunder or Ethan Hunt from Mission: Impossible.

When he shook my hand he looked me right in the eyes and said hello and I had to wonder for a moment if he was real or if I was meeting one of his characters in a vivid dream.

Tom Cruise’s persona was a bit overwhelming to say the least.

It was a very interesting experience, actually, because we were in an office with many other people, which included Paula Patton, and Tom took time to talk to most everyone, quite normally, even casually, but all the while I could not shake the impression he was one of his characters.

It made me kind of want to pinch him, even though I had already shook his hand. Don’t worry, I didn’t.

He was real and quite normal, down to earth and nice and gracious to everyone.

I learned something unexpected.

I wasn’t with those characters that day. I was with Tom Cruise and the characters he plays are a part of him.

What I mean is that Tom Cruise is an actor, but the majority of roles he plays are ones in-which he can be himself.

He reminded me of John Wayne.

As you may know, Tom hasn’t won any academy awards yet and for that matter neither did John Wayne until very late, but nevertheless those two men are perhaps the biggest actors to ever show up on the silver screen, certainly the biggest draws by far.

One of the most frequent criticisms John Wayne received throughout his career was that all he did was play himself. It’s not surprising to me that Tom Cruise receives the same criticism.

However, I’d like to argue that being yourself should be a complement, not a criticism.

Furthermore, here is my advice to anyone who creates:

Put as much of yourself into your art as you can.

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What I learned about being a truly creative person from Tom Cruise is this:

Be you.

Consider Robert Downey Jr.

Robert’s movies were pretty much way out there for a while, interesting and intriguing, but not really great. As special as his performances were, especially as Chaplin, something seemed to be missing.

However, when he took on the roles of Tony Stark and Sherlock Holmes something magnificent happened.

He seemed to come into his own, didn’t he?

Now consider that the characters Tony Stark (Iron Man – Avengers) and Sherlock Holmes are kind of snarky and totally full of themselves, they love to wisecrack and play practical jokes. You could probably include Chaplin to a degree with them.

The question is, do they remind you of anyone?

Those things are what Robert Downey Jr. has been known for off camera his entire career.

That’s pretty interesting don’t you think?

You don’t have to reinvent yourself to be creative.

If you want to be creative in the most remarkable way, be you.

Most people try so hard to be what they think other people want and say things they think others want to hear.

That’s not creative. That’s frustrating.

Try something else. Try Being Yourself.

I am willing to bet you are very interesting and compelling, so don’t hide.

Do you think this is something to consider? Share in the comments.

~Bryan

About the Author

Bryan Hutchinson

I'm a positive writer and when that doesn't work, I eat chocolate. I am here to inspire, encourage and motivate you! When I am not writing, I love visiting castles with my wife, Joan. How about joining me on Twitter and Facebook.

  • http://www.facebook.com/stacey.buesingcovell Stacey ‘Buesing’ Covell

    This was a great article. I completely agree with you that we must bring as much of ourselves into our art as possible. Drawing on our own experience and self is what makes it the most creative and genuine as it can be. And people are drawn to that. 

    • http://www.positivewriter.com/ Bryan Hutchinson

      Indeed, Stacey. Thank you.

  • annepeterson

    Bryan, You are amazing. I loved this post because you encouraged us to be ourselves. To let whatever we have to offer be through us. I appreciate you.

    • http://www.positivewriter.com/ Bryan Hutchinson

      Ah, Anne, so are you. And I appreciate the head’s up about ROLL that you sent me.

  • http://www.ipaintiwrite.com/ Pamela Hodges

    Bryan, today I will be myself. Thank you for the positive outlook. 

    • http://www.positivewriter.com/ Bryan Hutchinson

      Sounds like a good day, Pamela :)

  • http://www.sundijo.com Sundi Jo Graham

    Great post Bryan. 

    • http://www.positivewriter.com/ Bryan Hutchinson

      Thanks, Sundi Jo.

  • AManess

    This is a great post, Bryan. I love how positive and encouraging you are. This was a message I needed to hear today. :) Thanks!

    • http://www.positivewriter.com/ Bryan Hutchinson

      Thanks AManess, be you.

  • Marilynluinstra

    Thanks Bryan

  • http://twitter.com/Csterken Christa Sterken

    What a great perspective, Love it!

    • http://www.positivewriter.com/ Bryan Hutchinson

      :) Thanks, Christa.

  • http://www.facebook.com/devan.crable Devan Crable

    I think that we are always creating who we are.  I’m not the same person I was 10 years ago.  I decided who I wanted to be, what kind of person I wanted to be, then worked on having those qualities.  Not all of the qualities came easy, yet practice makes perfect.  Thanks 

    • http://www.positivewriter.com/ Bryan Hutchinson

      Devan, excellent point, we are always working ourselves, not working to be someone else.

  • http://www.facebook.com/RachelJStevens04 Rachel J Stevens

    Exactly what I needed to read this afternoon, thanks!

  • http://7feetnorth.com/ Heather Goyette

    It’s easy to think that I’m just not as interesting as, say, Tom Cruise.  But you’re right in that what I create needs to have “me” in it. Great post!

    • http://www.positivewriter.com/ Bryan Hutchinson

      Hi Heather, I so get what you are saying.  I think most of us think we are not that interesting as someone like him, but that’s why some of us try to reinvent ourselves or try to ‘act’ like someone else. It’s an approval thing, but our own. Truth is we don’t know how other people see us and maybe we are wonderfully interesting to others when we let our guard down and be ourselves for a while. Tom Cruise didn’t think he was that interesting and originally was going to Europe, not New York where he found his calling.

  • http://www.facebook.com/maureenpenny.hawes Maureen Penny Hawes

    Bryan, Congratulations on being voted one of the 10 best blogs for Writers – I can certainly see why! I’m so glad I discovered you via their email this morning – I feel like you’re speaking to a very fragile place in my soul (which is suddenly being nourished from many unexpected directions), thank you for being a part of my journey.

  • Arrazi

    Nice tips sir. That what we must be. Be ourself at any condition.